Inderjit Kaur Khalsa, PhD A Brief Autobiography of My Life in India
I was born on January 22, 1935 in Wazirabad, Gujrawala District, in what was then India and is now West Pakistan. My father was Bhai Sahib Kartar Singh Uppal and my mother was Sardarni Rawal Kaur Uppal.
Both of my parents were descended from historical Sikh families. My mother traces her lineage directly to Guru Nanak. My father's family is descended from Bhai Sahib Abnasha Singh, a Sikh saint during the time when Maharajaha Ranjit Singh was a child.
As a small boy, he had contracted small pox, and his parents brought him to Bhai Sahib Abnasha Singh in Wazirabad for healing. Later, there was a Gurdwara built in Wazirabad to commemorate that place where Bhai Sahib Abnasha Singh used to meditate.
In gratitude for the healing of Maharajah Ranjit Singh, seven villages were offered as gifts to Bhai Sahib Abnasha Singh.
General Hari Singh Nalwa, the steel willed lieutenant of Maharajah Ranjit Singh, was also an ancestor of my father. When I was a child, the street on which we lived was named Bhai Sahib's Mohalla (Bhai Sahib's street) in honor of my father's family.
A few years ago I traveled back to Pakistan to visit my childhood home and the land of my Sikh family for many generations. Gratefully, as I toured the area—while almost everything in our town had changed—the street where I grew up was still named Bhai Sahib's Mohalla!
The Muslim families who lived there showed me the room, which was our Gurdwara and was where Bhai Sahib Abnasha Singh had meditated. To this day, they have maintained the sovereignty of that sacred space.
The title of Bhai Sahib had been bestowed upon my father and his father and his father, before him, for many generations. I understood the responsibilities of the Bhai Sahib, which my father had to the Sikh families in our region.
As such, when I was bestowed with the title of Bhai Sahiba of the Western Hemisphere by my husband, the Siri Singh Sahib, and the Khalsa Council of Sikh Dharma of the West, I understood the importance and the responsibilities of this position.
I knew it was a great honor and considered it my destiny to continue this seva which my family had always fulfilled.
In 2004, I was blessed again with the honor of a proclamation letter from the Akal Takhat, which acknowledged and confirmed my position as a Bhai Sahiba. Bhai Sahiba Bibiji on Facebook
Baisakhi Day Celebration, Los Angeles, CA Sunday, April 16, 2005, LA Convention Center
Dr. Bibiji Inderjit Kaur, Bhai Sahiba, Chief Religious Minister for Sikh Dharma in the Western Hemisphere addresses more than 15,000 Sikhs from California and around the country. She spoke about the spirit of Khalsa and how each and every Sikh is spreading the Guru's mission. She also spoke of the spiritual service of her husband Siri Singh Sahib Bhai Sahib Harbhajan Singh Khalsa Yogijji. (Yogi Bhajan).
Happy Birthday Bibiji!
Posted by Gurumustuk Singh on Jan 22nd, 2007 in SSS Harbhajan Singh
Today is the birthday of a great soul, a true Gursikh, and the person I have regarded as my mother for my entire adult life – Bhai Sahiba Bibi Inderjit Kaur, wife of Siri Singh Sahib Bhai Sahib Harbhajan Singh Khalsa Yogiji. To me, she is known in my heart simply as "Bibiji".
Bibi Inderjit Kaur was born on January 22, 1935, in the town of Wazirabad in the district of Gujranwala which is now part of Pakistan. She was born into a devout Sikh family with a powerful lineage. Her great-grandfather was Bhai Sahib Abnasha Singh who was a known and respected saint and healer of his time.
When Maharaja Ranjit Singh was stricken with small pox as a child, he was brought to Bhai Abnasha Singh for treatment. Ranjit Singh came in royal splendor with great pomp and show, and Bhai Sahib admonished him saying, "You should not have come with all this nonsense. You have disturbed my meditation!"
But ultimately he did bless Ranjit Singh and assured him that even though he had already lost one eye to the disease, he would heal and his other eye would be preserved. Later in life when Maharaja Ranjit Singh held rule over the Punjab, he bestowed the title of Bhai Sahib to Abnasha Singh in acknowledgement of his deep spirituality. He told Abnasha Singh to circle as many villages as he could on horseback in one day, and these he gave to him as a jagir, or land grant, in gratitude for healing him as a child.
Another great Sikh is in Bibiji's family tree is the brave and loyal warrior, Hari Singh Nalwa. Once in the early 1990′s I was with Bibiji and the Siri Singh Sahib in India and we all went to Hardwar to see the river Ganges. In the old days, the genealogy of the great families were kept by the family Brahmin in Hardwar.
Once a year, the devote Hindus would go for their purifying bath, and at that time would sign their family book, recording the births and deaths that occurred that year. As Sikh families sprung from the ancient Hindu bloodlines, some also continued the tradition of keeping their family records in Hardwar. So that day when we visited Hardwar, I learned for the first time of Bibiji's eminent family and that her family lineage was recorded there.
The old Brahmin priest brought forth "the book", and we all signed our names as having come with Bibiji to the Ganges. Four or five pages back in the book, there in bold black ink was the signature of Hari Singh Nalwa – the one who defended the Khalsa against all odds. Right there on the page, the gallant handwriting jumped out me! And next to his signature was another one easily recognized. On that day, Maharaja Ranjit Singh himself had signed the book as the guest of Hari Singh. Not only his signature, but his royal seal was proudly displayed. The two great men came for a cool bath on a hot spring day. It was right there in Bibiji's family book, five pages back in history from our own signatures.
Bibiji came to the United States in 1973, following her husband on the mission of the Guru's Path. I remember her spending long days in the kitchen, cooking endless pranteh for the hungry young people that were always coming to see the Siri Singh Sahib. She taught me, among many things, how to cook a good Indian meal. I think of her, and my heart thanks her every day as my rolling pin sculpts a round piece of dough into a perfect chapatti. But a kitchen has not yet been built that is big enough to hold her.
Bibiji went back to school and earned her PhD in counseling, serving the sangat with endless hours of compassionate listening and words of guidance. With a relentless devotion, she has fed, taught, counseled, consoled, and cared for three generations of sangat in the West.
Bhai Sahiba Bibi Inderjit Kaur, wife of Siri Singh Sahib Bhai Sahib.
Col. Jagjit Singh Guleria wrote about her, "As a wife, she is neither the "better half", nor "the other half" of Yogi Bhajan. Rather, she is a perfect profile of him – a harmonious blend of two souls." Those words now ring with the melody of truth as she serves the panth in the years since the passing of the Siri Singh Sahib.
The Akal Takhat Jethadar has honored her work in the west with the title Bhai Sahiba – the chief minister of Sikh Dharma International. She is known all over the world for her religious work, for her wisdom, for her philanthropy and for her dignity. But for me, she is still my Bibiji. Happy Birthday.
Listen to the Audio or Watch the video: Mr Sikh Net, Bibji Inderjit Kaur This past thursday (Oct 6th) at the Gurdwara here, Bibiji Inderjit Kaur (Wife of Siri Singh Sahib Harbhajan Singh Khalsa ) spent some time sharing stories of her life with her husband and family over the past 40 some years.